Who needs a New Year’s resolution when God’s mercies are new every morning? We have the opportunity every day to be better than we were the day before. We can set goals, but these drastic lifestyle changes that we propose tend to fall apart after a few months. Without our minds being renewed, we are setting ourselves up for failure from the start. For 2014, why not be a little more realistic?
For example, there is
no way I’m going to go from not exercising at all to spending 4 hours a week at
the gym. It just isn’t going to happen consistently because my mind hasn’t been
trained to do that. However, if I can spend a couple days a week walking for 20
minutes, maybe I’ll be ready for the gym eventually. Maybe it’s just me, but if
I miss a huge goal, I am more likely to be totally discouraged from trying
again. The smaller ones are easier to evaluate, adjust, and attack.
Several small changes
can lead to a dramatically better life. As you see the progress you are making
with the smaller goals, your mind will expand to larger goals with greater expectations
of achievement and completion. Pray and ask God to show you where to start and
how far to go. The beauty of the whole thing is that He gives us another
opportunity every time we wake up. We should have a better prayer life, make healthier
life choices, and have better relationships with family and friends. These are
not bad things. We should also help ourselves to reach our goals by
implementing the changes in phases throughout the year instead of all at once.
The only thing that you
absolutely must do right now is surrender your life to Christ. You may not have
another opportunity to accept eternal life. You also need to align yourself
with a community of believers that will help you to be better in Christ Jesus.
Responsibility and accountability are not your enemies – just the opposite.
Above all, remember that God’s love for you has nothing to do with you meeting
your goals. He loves you anyway and He always will.